One of the most effective marketing skills is the ability to have an effective conversation with another person. We must be able to speak intelligently, calmly, and without excessive emotion. We must be well informed, able to form complete thoughts and sentences, and use words that actually exist. We must be able to present our point of view in a non-threatening manner, encouraging the other person to understand and digest our intention.
We must allow the other person to inform us of their opinions and positions, even if they differ from ours. We must be willing to allow the other person to present their thoughts without interruption or other rude behavior. The mark of a bully is interrupting someone with whom they disagree or shouting them down when they are attempting to voice their opinion. We must not get so wrapped up in what we want to say that we do not allow them to speak at all. Our passion has to be controlled.
Intelligent speech consists of complete sentences and thoughts, not ramblings and “smoke and mirrors”. We should present our product or service in a professional manner, clearly stating what we provide. We must also present the cost to the other person in clear, concise terms, never clouding the discussion with vague and confusing words or phrases.
Be proud of what you have to sell or what you provide, what it means to the prospect or client, and what is will cost. If that cost may vary according to circumstances, refine that part of what you present into clear, concise terms. Make it easy for them to understand and relate to what you have and what it costs. They may have to present your proposal to someone else so you must make their job easier, and thus successful for you.
It is the mark of a successful person if they can present themselves in a professional manner. If you are passionate about what you do, so much the better, but do not preach to the person to whom you are speaking. Be personable, but do not violate the business relationship. If you need to do so, rehearse your presentation frequently before going public. Be calm, collected, and clear in what you say and how you say it. Remember that it is not only what you say, but how you say it that affects the other person.
We often hear people in public presentations who cannot relate their thoughts in an intelligent manner. How does that make you feel about them, what they are representing, and their attitudes towards us? Does it make you want to know them, to do business with them, or trust them? Would you refer others to them? How about in one-on-one conversations?
Please let me know your thoughts on this subject by leaving me your comments, or email me at Jim@SOC4Now.com, or call me at 360-314-8691. Remember that it is the mark of a professional if they can present their thoughts in logical, intelligent, and polite words. That same person listens before they open their mouth to tell us how they can solve our needs.